10 years

So I recently celebrated ten years of marriage. I think I am allowed now to talk about what makes for a good marriage between a me and a my husband. I am not sure I am qualified to talk about what would make a good marriage for other people! But I can think of some things I would like to say...

Lesse if I can do ten...

1) He really does love me.

2) I really do love him

3) You don't have to talk about how you love each other all the time.

4) But you should take the time to kiss and touch and say the words every day.

5) Gestures mean a lot - stop talking about feelings sometimes and look at what he does.

6) Equality is what you are both comfortable with - not what someone else says is the right balance.

7) Give credit.

8) Giggle together every day.

9) Talk code to one another - develop your own couple language and use it to bind and to bond,

10) Apologise.

Hmm that was easy. Maybe I can keep going? Orrrr maybe not.